Now, those of you who have been following my blog for a while might have noticed that Friday’s Fetish posts have been…absent lately.  There’s a reason for it. Your favorite phonesex Femdom has been at a loss for words!

I know. It boggles the imagination!

So, starting next Friday, I plan on revamping and restarting the Friday’s Fetish Spotlight with all new fetishes for you to peruse and learn about.  Here’s what I need from all of you: Send me whatever fetishes  you want to know more about.  You all know how much I enjoy making posts for all of you to read.  Feedback is not only welcomed, it’s encouraged!  Send me your thoughts, your ideas, your comments… let me know what it is that turns you ON!

In other news, I’ve been curled up with one of my all-time favorite actors, Patrick Warburton. Well, not actually curled up with him because he’s very happily married, but I’ve been spending a great deal of time watching his work and turning to a gooey puddle of Bella. I adore his voice.  And all of this time is due to my favorite enabler, the fabulous Mr. A., who has noticed and responded to my need for more Warburton in my collection!

And speaking of favorite actors, who among you have gotten the newest RDJ movie, Sherlock Holmes? It came out on dvd this past Tuesday, and while I haven’t run out to get it yet, I did get to see it over the Christmas holiday and if you HAVEN’T seen it? Get it! It’s such a fantastic movie and has Miss Bella all amped up to get out there and see Iron Man 2 when it hits theaters next month.

Until next time!

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I know, I know. It’s been a while since Miss Bella updated the Friday’s Fetish. Mea Culpa. However! I was busy this afternoon cleaning the house in preparation for my own burlesque Valentine’s Day outing, when I received a knock at the door.  Upon opening, what should greet me, but a green box and inside, about 30 of the most beautiful purple and white orchids!  The marvelous, fabulous Mr. A. has struck again!  I’m currently admiring how pretty they are and the thought struck me: Valentine’s Day evokes SO many completely opposite reactions. You either love it or hate it (or, in some instances, are completely indifferent to it) and in that vein, I started doing a little research and came up with a list of erotic fetishes that can be associated with this upcoming most lovey dovey of holidays!

The list goes on, and these are just a small sample of the many -philias out there associated with the holiday.  And really, when you consider that V-day is all about love, and that philia itself means “love”, it kind of goes hand in hand that Valentine’s Day is for Naughty Kinksters like all of you!

Don’t forget, my lovelies, that tomorrow, we’re celebrating the Love that surrounds Valentine’s Day here at LDW with the Love Fest! Starts at midnight, so gather up your hearts (and other things *wink*) and get ready to be loved by all of the lovely ladies here at LDW!

Until tomorrow!

"Love is the Essence of Life"

 

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I wanted to wish each and every one of my phone sex fanatics a fabulous, wonderful holiday season!

It doesn’t matter if you celebrate Hannukah, Christmas, Yule, Solstice, or Kwanzaa.  What matters is that you all find a reason to smile during this dreary time of year!  I know that all of you have done that for me.  You’ve made Miss Bella smile, not only through your words, but also through your generous deeds!

I wanted to thank you all for making MY holidays bright, and let you know that sissy, cuckold, chastity boy, or vanilla, you’ve all played a  huge part in making me feel like I’m at home here at LDW.  I’ve enjoyed each call, every single minute of it, all of the chatting and emails… they’ve just made me feel so wonderful!

On that same token, to all of my fellow Femdoms here at LDW: Happy Holidays to  you all, as well!  Especially to my darling Empress EmmaJane, and my loverly Mistress Ryan.  Miss Ally gets major kudos and thanks as well, because, let’s face it, she’s running a successful, welcoming, booming business that keeps all of us happy!

So again, I say to you all: Have the happiest of holiday seasons, my pets.  May 2010 bring you as much joy as you can handle, may you all benefit from good health and great friends/family at your side, and may we continue, you and I, to enjoy many more calls together!

Happy Holidays, my pets!

Until Next time, my lovelies!

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This week’s Friday Phone Sex Fetish should appeal to all the narcissists out there. Those of you who spend, well, a little too much time in front of that looking glass.

Eisoptrophilia (aka “Mirror, Mirror, on the wall…”)

Let’s face it.  We’re a society of voyeurs and exhibitionists.  Every day, there are those of us out there who prefer to watch, and those of us who prefer to BE watched.  We live our lives under the scrutiny of or scrutinizing others.  And in that same vein, our sexuality is rather closely tied to whichever side of the fence we happen to fall.  If that weren’t the case, do you really think the sex industry would be as popular as it is, pornography in particular?

However, there’s a little subset of kinksters out there who aren’t so much into viewing others… as they are into viewing themselves.  They’re so incredibly excited by passing certain reflective surfaces that they walk around in a rather constant state of sexual arousal.  Which surface am I referring to, you ask? Why, the mirror, of course!

Eisoptrophiliacs are unusually aroused by mirrors and/or seeing themselves IN those mirrors.  Not content to merely experience a wild romp in a lavish hotel, these are the darlings who would get the bed with the mirrored ceiling so they could gaze up at themselves while they let their fingers do the walking!  A sexual encounter with them just isn’t complete unless there’s a polished piece of glass within viewing distance through which they can admire themselves as well as what’s being done to them!

How many of you, my darlings, are guilty of this? Hmm?

Until tomorrow!

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It’s time, once again, for another Friday phone sex fetish session, and the one I’m bringing you today is, well, frankly the reason some exotic dancers do what they do so well!

Dishabiliophilia (aka “No need to look away…I’m not making you uncomfortable, am I?”)

Imagine, for a moment, that you’re alone in a room.  The lights are dim, there’s soft music playing.  A woman enters, a teasing smile on her lips as she stands before you, one hand going to her zipper.  You start to look away and instead, her sweet voice commands you to look at her, to watch her, and when you do, you realize that she’s so aroused by the way you’re watching her that she practically orgasms right there.

Dishabiliophiliacs find an unusual sexual arousal from undressing in front of someone.  For them, it’s not just the appetizer, it’s the whole main course.  And dessert.  And the after dessert coffee.  And that long walk on the beach under the starlit sky.

The very act of slipping out of their clothes in front of willing (and sometimes, unwilling) parties just makes them quiver all over! It’s no wonder that you find so many of them doing webcam shows or up on stage in a strip club! These are the guys and gals who give you that first peep show that leaves you loving the lacy lingerie as the precursor to what’s underneath.

So tell me, my pets, how do YOU feel when you’re slipping into something a little more comfortable in front of a watchful pair of eyes?

Until tomorrow!

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Calls are $2.50 per minute with a 10 minute minimum
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Here’s hoping this Friday finds you all having a grand ol’ time getting into the holiday spirit!  I recently received an email from a blog subscriber (and if it’s not you, why haven’t you subscribed yet?) who pointed out a glaring omission in my Friday’s Fetish posts!  Consider it corrected as of now.

Autogynephilia (aka “I’m so pretty I can’t stand it!”)

This question is for all my sissies and crossdressers out there: How do you feel when you slip into that silky lingerie and your prettiest dress?  Does it give you the sexy shivers? Do you look at yourself in the mirror and make kissy faces, thinking of how HOT it would be to feel yourself being taken right at that moment all dressed in your girlie best?  Does it make you want to throw yourself down, right then and there, and stroke your way to oblivion?

If the answer is yes, to any of the above, then you might be an autogynephiliac.  These lovely kinksters are incredibly aroused by crossdressing (either themselves OR others) and can’t wait to slip on something a little sexy before letting their fingers do the walking.  To them, crossdressing isn’t just a lifestyle, it’s a sexual fetish, an arousal that drives them to seeking out others like them with which to expand their play.

As my commenter suggested, it’s a rather hot button issue within the transsexual community, and with good reason! Not every crossdresser or sissy does it because they find it sexually stimulating, but there’s a big enough percentage who do, and for them? It’s not just a means to an end, it’s the whole flowery, frilly package!

Until tomorrow!

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Hello, my darlings!

This week’s Friday’s Fetish is all about touching, stroking, caressing, and, well, a few other things as well.

Doraphilia – (aka “Mind if I feel that?”)

I want you to close your eyes, for a moment, and imagine the following scenario: A beautiful woman stands before you. Her hair is long and silky, her eyes gazing at you with lustful intent. She’s wrapped in a mink stole that is artfully draped over her otherwise nude body. Reaching out a hand to you, she smiles and asks you, “Don’t you want to touch me?”

Now. With that scenario in your head, I want you to think of what it is about it that’s making you so hard right now. Is it the woman? Or is it that mink stole? Do you really want to run your fingers through her tousled mane, or do your fingers itch to curl into those fine, soft mink pelts?

If you’re a doraphiliac, it’s all about the fur (or the leather). For these fine kinksters, if it’s skin, it’s in, and the tender touch of something soft and fuzzy makes them shiver from head to toe. The idea of rubbing against a pair of leather pants makes them swell until you ache. They have a high appreciation for the sensual caress of skin on skin, and it doesn’t necessarily have to be human. *winks*

So tell me, my lovelies, what skin makes you quiver with need? Give me a call and tell me what you would do if you were presented with the above scenario!

Until next time!

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XOXO,
Bella

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This week’s Friday Phone Sex Fetish is brought to you by the letter ‘D’ and the letter ‘T’.  If your eyes well up while you’re reading this, then just remember…it’s all for the best!

Dacryphilia (aka “Don’t cry…unless you really need to!”)

Many men will complain that they don’t know what to do with a crying female.  There’s something so primal about tears, regardless of the reason, that it makes the vast majority of Alpha males run screaming from the area.  You Beta males, however, you know how to comfort a crying woman, don’t you, my pets?  Women often voice their own complaints when it comes to men not knowing how to show her some love when the tears start to flow.

Dacryphiliacs know exactly what to do.  In fact, these fabulous kinksters get quite excited by the sight of tears in the eyes of their lovers!  They need two tissues: one for her/him and one for themselves….to clean up the mess. *winks*  They say that the eyes are the windows to your soul, and for our darling dacryphiliacs, they prefer those windows slightly hazy with a chance of rain.

Think about it: Regardless of the reason behind those tears, you normally want to comfort the person doing the tearing up.  What better way to comfort them, I say, than to take them by the hand, lead them into the bedroom and kiss those tears away?  For the more sadistic among us, tie them up once inside, and see how many MORE tears you can get to bubble to the surface!  Fun times to be had by all (consentual and such, naturally)!

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It’s time for another Phone Sex Friday’s Fetish and I have one today that is rather self explanatory!

Crurophilia (aka “Legs are staple articles and will never go out of fashion while the world lasts”)

Who among us can resist an incredible pair of gams? It’s not surprising that legs are one of the most reported objects of affection, one of the most arousing (non genetalia related) parts of a woman’s body, and frankly, why not?  Not only do these marvels of human engineering manage to carry a woman around all day long, but most of the time, they do so in shoes that would send most men running for the hills! (My sissies and crossdressers, obviously this statement doesn’t apply to you!)

For example:

See what I mean?  I know that many of you are currently panting and drooling over that picture…but how many of you are doing so because of my lovely legs? Show of hands.  Mmhmm. I thought so.

Crurophiliacs must really have a tough time navigating the world.  To be surrounded by such lovely stalks and to be afflicted by such intense arousal due to their mere presence in your life, well, you kinksters must be wandering around with a 24/7 stiffy!

But never fear, my pets! I know precisely what to do with my leg lovers out there!  It involves you, on your knees, worshipping my bare legs from the toes up. Slowly. *grin* Don’t worry, when you get to the top of one, you get to start ALL OVER again on the next.

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This weeks phone sex fetish is one that will leave you gasping for air and wondering why you feel so snug!

Claustrophilia (aka “I can barely move in here!”)

For every phobia, there’s an associated philia and today’s fetish is no exception to the rule!  Claustrophobics are absolutely terrified of enclosed spaces.  Shortness of breath, panic attacks, and an instinct to break out and run far away are the usual responses.  However, for the naughty claustrophiliac kinksters, they don’t run away… they run TO!

Tie them up, tie them down, stuff them in a tiny cage, lock them in a minute cell, wrap them in a straight jacket, or encase them entirely in rubber or latex with only a teeny hole to breath out of… and you’ll have them panting and straining to stroke in NO time flat!

The secret is the restrictive nature and inability to escape.  The smaller the space, the better for these darlings, because they want to feel helpless and out of control.  And naturally, there’s a sexy FemDom waiting nearby to make sure they spend a good long while counting the lashes on their lids before letting them free!

When’s the last time you visited a Mistress and let her wrap you in a rubber suit, no arms, no legs, just one big sheath of rubber that she zipped up nice and tight before leaving you just a straw to breath out of? Make no mistake about it, an experience like that is memorable to say the very least!

Until tomorrow!

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