Oct-ogre is finally upon us again. Time for all my ghoulies and ghosties to figure out what they’re going to be wearing to the Halloween parties that will be rolling around come the end of the month. That means it’s time for yours truly to find a costume too.

Well, here we are, in the home stretch.  Christmas is 8 days away (my birthday, incidentally, is only 6 days from now) and I’m sure all of you are out there finishing up your last minute shopping.  I know I’ve been doing that as well and, I don’t know about . . . → Read More: Thursday’s Thoughts – Mistress Musings]]>

Well, here we are, in the home stretch.  Christmas is 8 days away (my birthday, incidentally, is only 6 days from now) and I’m sure all of you are out there finishing up your last minute shopping.  I know I’ve been doing that as well and, I don’t know about you, but there are times that I just need to sit back and relax!

I’ve officially received my first birthday present from none other than the ever so fabulous Mr. A!  Those of you who listen to my radio show, Miss Bella’s Fetish Free For All, over on Cock Radio every Tuesday, you’re already aware of this particular present.  He was so incredibly wonderfully generous that he gifted me with a brand new iPod touch!  I’ve been busily adding all my music and it’s been my constant companion over the last few days when I’m out and about.

So tell me, my darlings, what are you hoping to get for Christmas?  Are my sissies and pantyboys out there going to unwrap a brand new pair of frilly panties? What about my chastity boys? Are you expecting to find a new, naughty CB-6000 nestled in that box? Mmm. Maybe my cuckolded boys will finally get to watch their wives kiss (and lick, and suck) Santa under the Christmas tree!

Such naughty delights on such a naughty night! You can bet your Miss Bella will be decked out in her finest red velvet teddy and white stockings, just waiting for that kiss under the mistletoe!

Until tomorrow!

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Here’s hoping this Friday finds you all having a grand ol’ time getting into the holiday spirit!  I recently received an email from a blog subscriber (and if it’s not you, why haven’t you subscribed yet?) who pointed out a glaring omission in my Friday’s Fetish posts!  Consider it corrected as . . . → Read More: Friday’s Fetish – I Feel Pretty!]]>

Hello, my pets!

Here’s hoping this Friday finds you all having a grand ol’ time getting into the holiday spirit!  I recently received an email from a blog subscriber (and if it’s not you, why haven’t you subscribed yet?) who pointed out a glaring omission in my Friday’s Fetish posts!  Consider it corrected as of now.

Autogynephilia (aka “I’m so pretty I can’t stand it!”)

This question is for all my sissies and crossdressers out there: How do you feel when you slip into that silky lingerie and your prettiest dress?  Does it give you the sexy shivers? Do you look at yourself in the mirror and make kissy faces, thinking of how HOT it would be to feel yourself being taken right at that moment all dressed in your girlie best?  Does it make you want to throw yourself down, right then and there, and stroke your way to oblivion?

If the answer is yes, to any of the above, then you might be an autogynephiliac.  These lovely kinksters are incredibly aroused by crossdressing (either themselves OR others) and can’t wait to slip on something a little sexy before letting their fingers do the walking.  To them, crossdressing isn’t just a lifestyle, it’s a sexual fetish, an arousal that drives them to seeking out others like them with which to expand their play.

As my commenter suggested, it’s a rather hot button issue within the transsexual community, and with good reason! Not every crossdresser or sissy does it because they find it sexually stimulating, but there’s a big enough percentage who do, and for them? It’s not just a means to an end, it’s the whole flowery, frilly package!

Until tomorrow!

For phone sex sessions with me, call 800-601-6975.

Hello, my darlings!

This week’s Friday’s Fetish is all about touching, stroking, caressing, and, well, a few other things as well.

Doraphilia – (aka “Mind if I feel that?”)

I want you to close your eyes, for a moment, and imagine the following scenario: A beautiful woman stands before . . . → Read More: Friday’s Fetish – How Fuzzy]]>

Friday’s Fetish – How Fuzzy!

Hello, my darlings!

This week’s Friday’s Fetish is all about touching, stroking, caressing, and, well, a few other things as well.

Doraphilia – (aka “Mind if I feel that?”)

I want you to close your eyes, for a moment, and imagine the following scenario: A beautiful woman stands before you. Her hair is long and silky, her eyes gazing at you with lustful intent. She’s wrapped in a mink stole that is artfully draped over her otherwise nude body. Reaching out a hand to you, she smiles and asks you, “Don’t you want to touch me?”

Now. With that scenario in your head, I want you to think of what it is about it that’s making you so hard right now. Is it the woman? Or is it that mink stole? Do you really want to run your fingers through her tousled mane, or do your fingers itch to curl into those fine, soft mink pelts?

If you’re a doraphiliac, it’s all about the fur (or the leather). For these fine kinksters, if it’s skin, it’s in, and the tender touch of something soft and fuzzy makes them shiver from head to toe. The idea of rubbing against a pair of leather pants makes them swell until you ache. They have a high appreciation for the sensual caress of skin on skin, and it doesn’t necessarily have to be human. *winks*

So tell me, my lovelies, what skin makes you quiver with need? Give me a call and tell me what you would do if you were presented with the above scenario!

Until next time!

For phone sex sessions with me, call 800-601-6975

XOXO,
Bella

Yahoo IM: Empress.Bella
Phone: 800-356-6169
Blog: http://www.phonesexfetishgirl.com

Hello, my lovelies!

This week’s fetish is something many of you grew up with and it’s carried over into today…only with a slightly different connotation!

Catagelophilia (aka “You really think I’m going to do something…with that?”)

We all were teased, growing up.  I don’t think anyone was immune to it, regardless of your . . . → Read More: Friday’s Fetishes – Schoolyard teasing…]]>

Hello, my lovelies!

This week’s fetish is something many of you grew up with and it’s carried over into today…only with a slightly different connotation!

Catagelophilia (aka “You really think I’m going to do something…with that?”)

We all were teased, growing up.  I don’t think anyone was immune to it, regardless of your popularity, but then, some of you were teased mercilessly and ridiculed to the point of tears.  Catagelophiliacs find it sexually arousing to be ridiculed, teased, or otherwise humiliated for some perceived personal flaw.

Now, you may be thinking to yourself, who really enjoys being ridiculed? I can’t even count the number of calls I get where the client begs to be laughed at, teased, humiliated, or otherwise made to feel inferior for something.  Whether it be a fascination with panties or an incredibly miniscule cock, there’s always something that can be exploited and laughed at.

This fetish really isn’t as uncommon as you may think!  If you consider how many fetishes actually develop in early adolescence, when the hormones are going crazy and you feel socially awkward around your peers, it’s really quite easy to see how something like a little schoolyard teasing can be associated with sexual excitement!  You’re getting attention, after all! You’re not invisible in that moment…especially when the person teasing you is that pretty head cheerleader you’ve been lusting after.  She may never give you the time of day in any other circumstance, but when she singles you out to giggle at you, mmm…suddenly, you’re her center of attention and she’s the one who makes you feel like you can do better, be better, prove to her that you’re not as much of a loser as she thinks you are.

*giggles*  We both know different, don’t we? You never quite grow out of loser status…but it gives you something to strive for.  And in the meantime, we’ll sit here giggling at your attempts;)

Until tomorrow!

 For phone sessions with me, call 800-601-6975.

I’ve been remiss! Bad Bella;) I forgot to tell you all about the Sissy School Beauty Pageant going on over at the Sissy School forums! This awesome contest is open to all sissies who want to really strut their stuff.  And we already know how much you like to show off, don’t we? . . . → Read More: Sissies! Take note!! It’s time for the 3rd Annual Sissy School Beauty Pageant!]]>

Hello, my darlings!

I’ve been remiss! Bad Bella;) I forgot to tell you all about the Sissy School Beauty Pageant going on over at the Sissy School forums! This awesome contest is open to all sissies who want to really strut their stuff.  And we already know how much you like to show off, don’t we? Especially those pretty little panties and dresses you’ve been prancing about in.

Entering is easy (and you can read ALL about it over on the forums) but the quick and dirty version is this: Take a snapshot of yourself in your best sissy gear and send it to the lovely Mistress Tara at Tarasaysbadboy@aol.com . Include your sissy name, and copy/paste the following into your email, “I am over 18, and I give permission to Sissy School/LDW Group to post my photo on www.sissyschool.com.”  Keep in mind, they’ll be posted on the boards for all the Mistresses to peruse and vote on.  And remember, it’s not just about how femme you look, but how sissy you are! So don’t be afraid to let that sweetness shine on through.

There are five categories that we’ll be judging on, at least ONE is bound to fit you;)

• Miss Sissy School – for the glamour-pusses out there
• Little Miss Sissy – for those of you who adore those frilly little dresses that make you so adorable
• Miss Sissy Maid – (my personal favorite) for all of you who like to play dress up in those faboo uniforms…you know the ones *winks*
• Sissy School’s Prettiest Baby – because you know we love our sissy babies too!
• Miss Sissy Slut – which you already know you are!

Entries MUST be received no later than March 31st, 2009, and the winners will be announced on April 7th!

Aside from being declared Sissy Beauty Queens, the winners will ALSO get to enjoy a free 15 minute call with the Sissy School Lady that they adore!  Come on, isn’t that worth it right there?  I thought so.

Now, there ARE rules, so pay attention:

• Contestants MUST be over 18 years of age.
• You can only submit photos of yourself. (Even if you think another sissy would be ideal, you know you want to get yourself out there!)
• Keep the clothing ON. No nude pictures. We want to see you dressed in your glorious sissy best, after all;)
• Faceless photos will not be accepted.  What good is a pretty dress without a pretty face to go with it? If you’re really shy, you can wear some snazzy sunglasses or get mysterious with a sexy veil.
• Remember that by submitting your photo, you’re giving us permission to post it on the Sissy School forums.

If you have any questions, you can drop Mistress Tara a line at the above mentioned email and she’ll be thrilled to answer them!

What are you waiting for? I’m dying to see you, my lovelies!

For phone sessions with me, call 800-601-6975.