I realized this morning that this upcoming Tuesday, the 16th will be my official one year anniversary here at LDW.  My how time has flown! It seems like only yesterday I was casting about, looking for something, ANYTHING that was better than what I was dealing with. I happened upon the Voxerotic website and, well, the rest, as they say, is history!

I’ve met so many lovely ladies here at LDW, been embraced by them and welcomed into their family, made to feel adored. I’ve talked to so many of you, my naughty kinksters, been both entertained and amused.  I’ve made friends both within the company and with many of my callers. I’ve shared secrets, joys, triumphs, and despairs.

I’ve cried with you, laughed with you, celebrated with you, and teased you mercilessly (because that’s what a devious phone sex Femdom like me does!)

This past year has been one of many changes for me. Both good, and not so good, but always looking up and ahead!  You, my darlings, have made this a wonderful year for me, as have the fantabulous Ms. Ally, all the beautiful dispatchers, and the rest of the sensual Femdoms here at LDW.

So I just wanted to take a few moments to say thank you to all of you, for making this past year a very special one for me, and I look forward to many more in the future: spanking my sissies, teasing my cucks, and winding that erotic web around my adoring darlings!

And don’t forget about the upcoming Love Fest, this Saturday, where you, too, can show the Mistresses of LDW how much you adore them!

"Love is the Essence of Life"

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This week’s Friday Phone Sex Fetish should appeal to all the narcissists out there. Those of you who spend, well, a little too much time in front of that looking glass.

Eisoptrophilia (aka “Mirror, Mirror, on the wall…”)

Let’s face it.  We’re a society of voyeurs and exhibitionists.  Every day, there are those of us out there who prefer to watch, and those of us who prefer to BE watched.  We live our lives under the scrutiny of or scrutinizing others.  And in that same vein, our sexuality is rather closely tied to whichever side of the fence we happen to fall.  If that weren’t the case, do you really think the sex industry would be as popular as it is, pornography in particular?

However, there’s a little subset of kinksters out there who aren’t so much into viewing others… as they are into viewing themselves.  They’re so incredibly excited by passing certain reflective surfaces that they walk around in a rather constant state of sexual arousal.  Which surface am I referring to, you ask? Why, the mirror, of course!

Eisoptrophiliacs are unusually aroused by mirrors and/or seeing themselves IN those mirrors.  Not content to merely experience a wild romp in a lavish hotel, these are the darlings who would get the bed with the mirrored ceiling so they could gaze up at themselves while they let their fingers do the walking!  A sexual encounter with them just isn’t complete unless there’s a polished piece of glass within viewing distance through which they can admire themselves as well as what’s being done to them!

How many of you, my darlings, are guilty of this? Hmm?

Until tomorrow!

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It’s time, once again, for another Friday phone sex fetish session, and the one I’m bringing you today is, well, frankly the reason some exotic dancers do what they do so well!

Dishabiliophilia (aka “No need to look away…I’m not making you uncomfortable, am I?”)

Imagine, for a moment, that you’re alone in a room.  The lights are dim, there’s soft music playing.  A woman enters, a teasing smile on her lips as she stands before you, one hand going to her zipper.  You start to look away and instead, her sweet voice commands you to look at her, to watch her, and when you do, you realize that she’s so aroused by the way you’re watching her that she practically orgasms right there.

Dishabiliophiliacs find an unusual sexual arousal from undressing in front of someone.  For them, it’s not just the appetizer, it’s the whole main course.  And dessert.  And the after dessert coffee.  And that long walk on the beach under the starlit sky.

The very act of slipping out of their clothes in front of willing (and sometimes, unwilling) parties just makes them quiver all over! It’s no wonder that you find so many of them doing webcam shows or up on stage in a strip club! These are the guys and gals who give you that first peep show that leaves you loving the lacy lingerie as the precursor to what’s underneath.

So tell me, my pets, how do YOU feel when you’re slipping into something a little more comfortable in front of a watchful pair of eyes?

Until tomorrow!

For erotic phone sessions with Empress Bella, call 800-601-6975
Must be 18+ to call
Calls are $2.50 per minute with a 10 minute minimum
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This week’s Friday Phone Sex Fetish is brought to you by the letter ‘D’ and the letter ‘T’.  If your eyes well up while you’re reading this, then just remember…it’s all for the best!

Dacryphilia (aka “Don’t cry…unless you really need to!”)

Many men will complain that they don’t know what to do with a crying female.  There’s something so primal about tears, regardless of the reason, that it makes the vast majority of Alpha males run screaming from the area.  You Beta males, however, you know how to comfort a crying woman, don’t you, my pets?  Women often voice their own complaints when it comes to men not knowing how to show her some love when the tears start to flow.

Dacryphiliacs know exactly what to do.  In fact, these fabulous kinksters get quite excited by the sight of tears in the eyes of their lovers!  They need two tissues: one for her/him and one for themselves….to clean up the mess. *winks*  They say that the eyes are the windows to your soul, and for our darling dacryphiliacs, they prefer those windows slightly hazy with a chance of rain.

Think about it: Regardless of the reason behind those tears, you normally want to comfort the person doing the tearing up.  What better way to comfort them, I say, than to take them by the hand, lead them into the bedroom and kiss those tears away?  For the more sadistic among us, tie them up once inside, and see how many MORE tears you can get to bubble to the surface!  Fun times to be had by all (consentual and such, naturally)!

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It’s time for another Phone Sex Friday’s Fetish and I have one today that is rather self explanatory!

Crurophilia (aka “Legs are staple articles and will never go out of fashion while the world lasts”)

Who among us can resist an incredible pair of gams? It’s not surprising that legs are one of the most reported objects of affection, one of the most arousing (non genetalia related) parts of a woman’s body, and frankly, why not?  Not only do these marvels of human engineering manage to carry a woman around all day long, but most of the time, they do so in shoes that would send most men running for the hills! (My sissies and crossdressers, obviously this statement doesn’t apply to you!)

For example:

See what I mean?  I know that many of you are currently panting and drooling over that picture…but how many of you are doing so because of my lovely legs? Show of hands.  Mmhmm. I thought so.

Crurophiliacs must really have a tough time navigating the world.  To be surrounded by such lovely stalks and to be afflicted by such intense arousal due to their mere presence in your life, well, you kinksters must be wandering around with a 24/7 stiffy!

But never fear, my pets! I know precisely what to do with my leg lovers out there!  It involves you, on your knees, worshipping my bare legs from the toes up. Slowly. *grin* Don’t worry, when you get to the top of one, you get to start ALL OVER again on the next.

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This weeks phone sex fetish is one that will leave you gasping for air and wondering why you feel so snug!

Claustrophilia (aka “I can barely move in here!”)

For every phobia, there’s an associated philia and today’s fetish is no exception to the rule!  Claustrophobics are absolutely terrified of enclosed spaces.  Shortness of breath, panic attacks, and an instinct to break out and run far away are the usual responses.  However, for the naughty claustrophiliac kinksters, they don’t run away… they run TO!

Tie them up, tie them down, stuff them in a tiny cage, lock them in a minute cell, wrap them in a straight jacket, or encase them entirely in rubber or latex with only a teeny hole to breath out of… and you’ll have them panting and straining to stroke in NO time flat!

The secret is the restrictive nature and inability to escape.  The smaller the space, the better for these darlings, because they want to feel helpless and out of control.  And naturally, there’s a sexy FemDom waiting nearby to make sure they spend a good long while counting the lashes on their lids before letting them free!

When’s the last time you visited a Mistress and let her wrap you in a rubber suit, no arms, no legs, just one big sheath of rubber that she zipped up nice and tight before leaving you just a straw to breath out of? Make no mistake about it, an experience like that is memorable to say the very least!

Until tomorrow!

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This Friday’s phone sex fetish is all about the passage of time. Finding beauty where others may not see it anymore and cherishing that!

Chronophilia (aka “Like grains of sand through an hourglass…”)

When you tell most people to imagine the most beautiful person possible, the normal answers tend to revolve around people that are young, firm, still in the prime of their lives.  Yet, when you bring up the subject of things, many people will remark on the beauty of antiques (unless, of course, you’re talking to a technogeek who will, at length, tell you how beautiful the latest version of some sleek technogadget is!)  Why does this double standard exist? Ask someone to imagine an older woman and usually the age limit stops somewhere around 40!

For a chronophiliac, the passage of time and the effects on those people who surround them is what really turns their crank!  Where you might see your frumpy grandma, shuffling about in her housecoat, they see a raging vixen trapped inside an equally beautiful antique package!  These heroes of the fetish world aren’t just looking for Cougars out to ravish some poor young stud! No, they want the beauty that can only come with age and wisdom! In fact, I’d bet that most of you would SHUDDER to think of anyone over the age of 50 getting jiggy with it, but I’m here to tell you, with age comes experience!  And some of the most amazing FemDoms that I know are blazing past the preset ideals of what is considered conventionally sexy WELL into their twilight years!

If you don’t believe me, why don’t you check out the amazingly wonderful Mistress Vivian?  She could run circles around many of us younger gals, and she has an absolute BLAST doing so!  She has the skills to turn you inside out, my pets, and I can only hope to be as vibrantly beautiful as SHE is when I’m pushing past my 50s!

Until tomorrow!

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Hello, my lovelies!

This week’s phone sex fetish is one that, well, I think we all may have a touch of, believe it or not!

Acousticophilia (aka “What is that… delicious noise?”)

I want you to take a moment to think about the things that turn you on.  Is it something visual? Does the sight of a throbbing hard member make you squirm in delight? Maybe it’s a scent?  That…smell of sex that hangs unmistakably in a room long after the act itself is finished?  Or perhaps it’s the sound of a woman finding her pleasure that really gets you hard and ready to stroke it?

Of all the senses, sound is one of the most widely linked to arousal.  So it should come as no surprise to you that there are a few fetish fanatics out there who consider it the penultimate source of excitement.  Acousticophiliacs find certain sounds to be extremely erotic, so much so that it’s all they can do to keep from thrusting their hands down their trousers and stroking their way to a speedy release right then and there!

They’re also the most likely candidates for a steamy, hot phone sex session!  I can’t even tell you how many times I’ve been asked to replicate just what I sound like when I’m finding my pleasure.  And for the record? When Miss Bella watches porn? I skip the ones with the cheesy musical soundtrack because it doesn’t turn me on NEARLY as much as, say, the sounds of the grunts, sighs, screams and moans of the participants.

What sounds tickle your aural canals?  Share!!

Until tomorrow!

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Hello, my pets!

It’s time for another Friday Fetish and this one will appeal to those of you who are more infatuated with the idea of not knowing who it is you’re spending time with.

Xenophilia (aka “I don’t know who you are, but damn you’re hot.”)

You’re sitting alone in a crowded bar.  There is a haze in the air obscuring most of your view as you nurse your drink.  You’re finding yourself insanely aroused because of the plethora of people milling about.  You don’t know anyone there, but you find yourself going from bar to bar, spending time in each one until the tingle in your pants becomes an unbearable ache.  You make your way to the bathroom, locking yourself in a stall and resting your head against the wall as you fumble for your pants.  You reach inside and desperately start to stroke, thinking of all the people in the other room who don’t know you at all, the unfamiliar faces swimming into view as you start to finally crest into your orgasm.

Xenophiliacs are aroused by strangers.  The above scenario is pulled directly from a conversation I’ve had with one of these lovely fetish fanatics.  Believe it or not, I think we’ve all been there at one point or another.  But this is a regular occurance for the poor xenophiliac. Can you imagine spending your days in public places on the very edge of constant arousal?  Personally, it sounds delicious, but then, that’s me!

Until tomorrow!

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Hello, my darlings!

It might come as a complete surprise to you, but there is not fetish in the “Q” part of the alphabet.  So skipping right along, we’re going to go over one that makes me giddy because it incorporates one of my favorite things!

Retifism (aka “I love your shoes!”)

In the wide, wide world of foot fetishism, there exists a smaller minority who aren’t as into feet…as they are into the shoes you walk around in throughout the day.  Retifism is all about the shoes.  Heels, flats, boots, ballet, platforms, loafers…it doesn’t matter. If it’s a shoe, it’s a sexually arousing object and it’s not unusual in the slightest to learn that these lovely fetishists often have a favorite pair they pull out strictly for masturbation purposes!

I have a caller who absolutely adores shoes.  In fact, every single call we talk at length about the Italian leather dress shoes he’d steal from his parents’ closet, or the heels he used to drool over that his mom would wear to work. He confessed how he’d stealthily take a pair into his room, spend time caressing them with his hands, his lips, and eventually, his cock, until he had the most amazing release all over the insole.

These desires are what set those who indulge in retifism apart from straight foot fetishists. And why do you think women wear heels? We don’t do it for ourselves…we do it for all of you! So you’ll have someting nice t stare at as we walk by;)

Until tomorrow!

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